Play, Children, and Blessing

Once, we were all little children. We knew how to play, and we spent many hours playing---if we were lucky, to our heart's content. Some of us leave that behind, and in our adulthood, with its myriad responsibilities, we forget how to play, and our life loses that wonderful zest that comes with a playful spirit. One of the great blessings of being parents and grandparents is that our children and grandchildren give us another chance to become playful again, and enjoy life with a child-like spirit.

All of this, and more, was well understood by the people we call Native Americans. Their words share their wisdom with us, speaking from ages past in a voice that still rings true. If we are wise, we will heed their advice.

Those who know how to play can easily leap over the adversities of life.

And one who knows how to sing and laugh does not need to brew mischief.

(Igluik Proverb)

The Creator made it be this way.

An old woman shall be as a child again, and her grandchildren shall care for her.

For only because she is, they are.

(Handsome Lake, Seneca)

Be happy in order to live long.

Worry makes you sick.

(Hopi Proverb)

It is strictly believed and understood by the Sioux that a child is the greatest gift

from Wakan Tanka in response to many devout prayers , sacrifices, and promises.

Therefore the child is considered sent by Wakan Tanka.

(Robert High Eagle, Teton Sioux)

Hold on to what is good, even if it is a handful of dirt.

Hold on to what you believe, even if it is a tree that stands by itself.

Hold on to what you must do, even if it is a long way from here.

Hold on to life, even if it is easier to let go.

Hold on to my hand, even if I have gone away from you.

(Pueblo Blessing)

My response:

Great Spirit, may I never grow too old to play,

too serious to laugh,

too busy to spend time with children,

too self-important to be willing to learn from others, no matter how much I think I know.

May I life a blessed life by holding on to what is good, being faithful, cherishing life,

and staying connected to those who care for me.